When is it time to stop fighting? How many times you have to fail until you decided to give up? How do you know what is your purpose? Is your purpose worth fighting for? At the end of the day is your purpose worth the life on earth, does it matter if you succeed this purpose when the only thing you’re fighting for is to get through Heavens gates? What’s the point of living a certain lifestyle when none of it matters, your earthly life will not carry on into your afterlife. All material things will not carry on into your after life? So why does it matter? Why would it matter if You were homeless or successful, when The only thing is, did you obey His word and live a faithful/Godly life?
Starting to realize your absence is my distraction, Deleting you was my satisfaction. Had my guard up so the feeling of you disapearing wouldn’t hurt so much; use to feen for your love and soothing touch. Now you are gone. And I’m alone sitting on my stool in solitude, and I couldnt be happier…. Continue reading
You grow spiritually by praying, fasting, and reading more. When someone says that they want to grow spiritually and know more about God, that doesn’t mean they’re lost in their faith or ignorant about Him and His works. You can’t grow by relying on the information that has only been taught to you. You go to church and bible study to learn and seek more to grow don’t you? Or do you rely on all you need to know is God loves you and he sent His only begotten son to save you? No there’s more to God then just the gift and blessings he bestow on you. Yes He loves you and Yes he will protect you, but should you be denied and judge for want to know more about Him. We all know that God is a merciful God and he gives unconditional love to His people, and there are different religion and cultures that serve God and teach his doing. So if one wants to learn what is being taught about God in other religion/culture you don’t suppressed their knowledge and desire by telling them to focus on what is already being taught and not worry about what is being taught about God elsewhere. They’re not learning or worshiping about another/different God. They’re learning about God the one and only God to grow spiritually. But closed minded and judgmental people who thinks their religion and knowledge about God is the only truth and the only knowledge you need. And for some it’s not enough, sometimes it good to want to know more to grow.And that doesn’t mean you’re lost or you’re going to lose faith. That is only going to make your relationship with God stronger because you’re taking time out to learn more about Him. And I don’t see anything wrong with that, and I don’t care who does.
“I can and I won’t,” is the phrase of today’s time. So many people have the ability and talent to do so much for themselves, but they choose not to. It’s easy taking the easy way out or give up just to avoid feelings of any hardship or stress. It’s easy to procrastinate and say I’ll do it tomorrow, today I’ll just chill.
How about “I can and I will. Today I will go workout. Today I will be productive. Today I will do whatever to get things done and accomplished. You should motivate yourself to be productive and successful.
I was told that there was two kinds of people in this world, the talker/thinker and the doer. Talkers may talk the talk but half the time they won’t walk the walk. There’s nothing wrong with creating a plan/great idea, but it’s best to at least make the effort to become active within that plan. It is easy to let those ideas go down the drain and remain unsuccessful. Putting of ideas will allow you to process thoughts like the what if’s or I should have/could have.
Doers on the other hand they create the plan and work towards accomplishing that goal. The do this by being productive, forming goals, and never giving up. They can accept that failure may occur, but that won’t stop them. The only thing that’s on their mind is succeeding, and most of the time they do. Self motivation and assurance, and lots of prayers get them through.
What kind of person are you, a talker or a doer? Before you give up and become a couch potato think about the finish product of the goal you once created. Think about the benefits of being productive like reading a book, networking, exercising, and etc. Most importantly think “I can and I Will.”
People will not understand the plans that God will make for you. As long as it’s understood between you and him, nothing else should matter.
Sometimes when you’re trying to make moves it’s best to keep things to yourself, until everything is complete. People will doubt you, pretend to support and and throw shade towards you.But screw them, You don’t need that in your life. Nehemiah rebuilt Jerusalem within 6months (I could be wrong), but he shared his doings with people who were close to him and told no one else, only to keep people from preventing him from building the city (My interpretation).
BUT you see my point, you will make a lot a progress by keeping your business to yourself, you are your only motivator(along with God), and there is no one keeping you from succeeding. Go M.I.A
10-Year-old Ify Ufele started her own plus size clothing line for kids after being bullied about her size. she has already shown her designs at NYF.
Getting a chance to go back to school and change the path of my life. I have a bachelors in Communications and was recently working on my Master’s in Clinical Psychology. My passion of wanting to be a professional journalism/radio broadcaster changed. I for one could not find a job with my degree and I begin to brainstorm about my interest in a career. I love the thought of assisting others and giving advice. And why not make a career out of it.
The experience of studying Clinical Psychology was very interesting and I found a job that put my “foot in the door.” I worked as a Mental Health Specialist for a few months. And enjoyed learning about the different symptoms of mental heath that some clients had.
Now I’m thinking about just starting over. Maybe getting a second bachelor’s in psychologist which will take about a year then work on my masters. The only thing that effects my acumen of this plan is the job market. Of course I did my research and the chances of receiving a job in psychology with a bachelor’s is slim to none.
On the other hand I have a better chance of receiving a good job with a social working degree.But the only question is will I be able to become a counselor? Which is better Social Worker or Psychologist? My research continues…
Being fat in America: As a person who is a bit on the thick side, I have to listen to others tell me how I should lose weight. I been thick since I was a child and the adults in my life stressed out so many times how I was fat and needed to lose weight. The crazy thing is my siblings and others around me are all small /skinny. So imagine the stress and the lack of self esteem I had. Once my father told me when I’m older no one will want me because I was fat and I was going to have five different baby daddies with several kids. A curse to die for, right.
Then living in a world where being heavy is not a part of being beautiful. Being fat in America: Others expect you to look like celebrities in videos and reality T.V shows. And don’t forget about blogs and products that will assist you to be lean and healthy. As if you can’t be big and healthy.
In college I literally dropped the weight I went from 180 to 145, and I thought I was sexy. But unfortunately I gained it back. My weight fluctuates from semi thin thick to just thick. But I’m healthy. I workout maybe at least 3 times a week and I make it my business to eat healthy, I just have big girl features lol.
But the most important thing I learned about the journey of my life, is to love yourself. If you don’t love who you are, you will never accept the love that others have to offer you. If you feel depressed about your weight do something about it. But if you’re living in an area where you love who you are and others can’t accept you because of your weight, separate yourself. You don’t want to be surrounded around people that can’t accept and love you.
Be you and be beautiful.
Number on thing on my agenda is getting into a hobby. Asked myself a question that I haven’t asked myself in a long time. What do I want to do in life? Since I have been out of work I have been wanting to do more with myself and make myself more valuable. So I went google a bunch a hobbies for me to do and I couldn’t find one that fits me. And then it hit me. Writing. Although I’m not the best at it and practice makes perfect, but I enjoy doing it. I enjoy making others feel and think, and having that kind of reaction is mere talent. So I’m going to get back into it. That means writing something everyday.